Your dream life isn’t gonna build its f*cking self.
Get unstuck, stay unstoppable!
How I Can Help
Life & Career Alignment
Making money is non-negotiable. Hating your career isn’t.
I get it—we all need to make money. But when you’re feeling unfulfilled with your work, how you spend most of your waking life, it can make you feel trapped and depressed.
When you do work that actually fits who you are, it doesn’t feel like a trap! When you stop forcing yourself into a life you don't want, you get peace.
Know what you want but can’t seem to get there? We’ll uncover what’s holding you back—and slash through it.
Not exactly sure what you want, but it sure as hell isn’t what you’ve got right now? We’ll figure it out—and get you to it.
Suffering for a paycheck is outdated. Let’s put you on a path that doesn't make you want to fake your own death..
Clarity & Direction
Hoping I’ll hand you the exact path to your dream life?
TOO BAD!
I ain’t got it—YOU do.
That’s right! You already have the knowledge, power, and ability to get what you want. My purpose here is to help you unlock it and live it.
I’m not here to give you advice. What I can give you is authentic, ICF-recognized professional life coaching designed to guide you into deep self-discovery. We’ll cut through the noise, doubt, and endless “I don’t know” spirals, straight to what actually matters.
The insights you gain here will become your fuel—moving you forward with clarity, confidence, and purpose.
Action & Accountability
Thinking and learning about change isn’t enough—it’s time to move.
If watching YouTube videos and reading self-help books actually produced results, we’d all be millionaires!
Here’s what we’ll do: turn your insights into clear, doable actions that are designed specifically for you and your goals. Because when the insight is strong enough, the action naturally follows.
Your self-sabotage attempts? CANCELLED.
To make sure these these actions aren’t just “good ideas” that fade quietly into the void of your excuses we’re setting up a personalized accountability plan. Regular check-ins, direct support, and actual human interaction to make sure you’re sticking to your commitments—even when it gets uncomfortable.
Real change isn't about what you know, it's about what you consistently do.
Work With Me
Let’s get to work!
If your life feels like a bad party you're awkwardly stuck at, I see you—I’ve been there. Maybe you’ve been grinding in the wrong direction, overthinking every move, or even doomscrolling to avoid facing it. Let’s change that.
What You Get:
1:1 Coaching Sessions: Deep clarity, actionable steps, real accountability
Messaging Support Between Calls: You’re never alone in this process
Big Wow Energy: Genuine inspiration, insightful breakthroughs, authentic transformation
What’s it cost?
Currently offering sessions as Pay What You Want.*
Why? I'm focused on genuinely helping people, building my reputation, and sharpening my skills—not just scaling my bank account.
You set the rate.*
Choose an amount that feels accessible, respectful, and aligned. No weird vibes. No judgment. Just mutual trust. The suggested amount would be between $50-$100 per session.
*Subject to future change
The Experience
This is a bold, deep dive into what you truly want, what's holding you back, and how to move forward—without burnout, panic, or existential dread. No hustle-culture nonsense or "just think positive!”
Each session is structured to set clear expectations, explore deep questions, design actionable steps, and create genuine accountability. Fair warning: I’ll ask tough questions, and it may get uncomfortable! But getting uncomfortable is essential to change—and it’s absolutely worth it.
Ready to get started? Click below to schedule your completely free, zero-pressure 30-minute call. We’ll get clear on what you need and see if we vibe. Absolutely no awkward selling—just an honest conversation.
About the Coach
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Shelby Mirziteh (They/Them)
Hi—I’m so glad you’re here!
I coach millennials, especially my fellow LGBTQIA+ folks, helping them get unstuck and finally lead a life of passion and purpose.My Story
I’m a 36-year-old non-binary, transfemme parent and veteran who's lived a wildly dynamic life. I've navigated childhood trauma, combat deployments, careers in massage therapy and technology, marriage, parenthood, divorce, poverty, financial stability, and gender transition.
One of my toughest battles was moving from "making it" in the corporate world, back into authenticity. I had fought hard for that sense of safety, stability, and comfort—but it turned out it was a cage. A comfy cage, sure—but still a cage.
I had to confront my fears, examine my patterns, and honestly decide what kind of life I genuinely wanted—not the one society expected of me. Is it easy? HELL NO! Is it worth it to live authentically? ABSOLUTELY.
Why Coaching Matters to Me
I truly believe the world becomes better when more people live authentic, inspired, purpose-driven lives. I've sat in jobs that paid well, yet the thought of doing them until retirement was soul-crushing.
Coaching, therapy, and a sh*tload of real-life experience taught me that my purpose lies in serving others through transitions—especially those feeling stuck or lost in their careers. There's plenty of personal development stuff out there, but advice alone doesn't change lives. At the end of the day, your actions do.
Working with a coach for deep insights, targeted actions, and genuine accountability has made all the difference for me—and I know it can for you too.
Credibility & Certification
I'm currently completing training at an International Coaching Federation (ICF)-accredited academy, soon obtaining my full ICF certification. This professional training is important to me because while anyone can call themselves a coach, there's a meaningful difference between mentoring from personal experience and professionally trained life coaching.
Think of coaching as similar to therapy—but instead of focusing primarily on healing past trauma, we’re oriented toward building future success. I’m a strategic thought partner that holds you accountable for following through.
My Coaching Style
As you've likely sensed by now, my coaching style is playful, direct, supportive—and absolutely no bullsh*t. In sessions, you’ll be the clear focus, and your insights will guide our work. We'll co-design exactly how our coaching partnership looks because your growth shouldn't be a "one-size-fits-all" experience.
Let's Connect
If this resonates, I'd love to chat with you. Set up a completely free, zero-pressure, 30-minute call to discuss your situation and explore if coaching together feels right. No sales pitch—just genuine connection.
Ready when you are.
Not ready to book a call? Cool, but don’t let self-doubt win. Drop your details, and I’ll hit you back ASAP.